How are we related calculator
Enter both relatives, label the shared ancestor, and compare how far each branch descends. The result updates instantly on the page with no server calls.
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A cousin relationship calculator compares each person's distance from the same common ancestor to name the exact kinship between them. Use it to confirm whether two relatives are second cousins, once removed, siblings, or on the aunt-and-uncle branch.
Enter both relatives, label the shared ancestor, and compare how far each branch descends. The result updates instantly on the page with no server calls.
Calculated relationship
CousinRemoved tells you how many generations apart two relatives are while they stay in the same cousin line.
Person A is Person B's first cousin once removed.
Person B is Person A's first cousin once removed.
The smaller depth sets the cousin degree, and the generation gap between the two branches becomes the removal count.
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Both branches start at Shared ancestor. The lower branch sets the removed count; the shallower matching branch sets the cousin degree.
Person A
Person B
Cross-reference both branches. The highlighted cell matches the live result above.
| Depth | Child | Grandchild | Great-grandchild | 2x great | 3x great | 4x great | 5x great |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Child | Sibling | Aunt/uncle | Great-aunt/uncle | 2x great-aunt/uncle | 3x great-aunt/uncle | 4x great-aunt/uncle | 5x great-aunt/uncle |
| Grandchild | Niece/nephew | First cousin | First cousin once removed | First cousin twice removed | First cousin 3 times removed | First cousin 4 times removed | First cousin 5 times removed |
| Great-grandchild | Great-niece/nephew | First cousin once removed | Second cousin | Second cousin once removed | Second cousin twice removed | Second cousin 3 times removed | Second cousin 4 times removed |
| 2x great-grandchild | 2x great-niece/nephew | First cousin twice removed | Second cousin once removed | Third cousin | Third cousin once removed | Third cousin twice removed | Third cousin 3 times removed |
| 3x great-grandchild | 3x great-niece/nephew | First cousin 3 times removed | Second cousin twice removed | Third cousin once removed | Fourth cousin | Fourth cousin once removed | Fourth cousin twice removed |
| 4x great-grandchild | 4x great-niece/nephew | First cousin 4 times removed | Second cousin 3 times removed | Third cousin twice removed | Fourth cousin once removed | Fifth cousin | Fifth cousin once removed |
| 5x great-grandchild | 5x great-niece/nephew | First cousin 5 times removed | Second cousin 4 times removed | Third cousin 3 times removed | Fourth cousin twice removed | Fifth cousin once removed | Sixth cousin |
The calculator works best when you know the nearest common ancestor shared by both people and can place each branch correctly below that person.
Step 1
Add two names so the result reads like a real family connection instead of generic labels.
Step 2
Type the common ancestor's name and choose the ancestor generation label you want shown on the visual chart.
Step 3
Select how far each person is below that same ancestor, such as child, grandchild, or great-grandchild.
Step 4
The calculator names the relationship, shows whether it is removed, and highlights the connection visually so you can verify the answer.
Common questions about cousin relationships, shared ancestors, and how to interpret the result.
Once removed means the two relatives are one generation apart while staying in the same cousin line. Your parent's first cousin and your first cousin's child are both your first cousin once removed.
Look for the nearest person who appears in both branches of your tree. That may be a grandparent, great-grandparent, or an earlier shared ancestor depending on how far back the connection goes.
Second cousins are in the same generation and share great-grandparents. First cousins once removed share grandparents but sit one generation apart from each other.
Yes. If one branch is still at the child level of the shared ancestor, the result becomes an aunt, uncle, niece, or nephew relationship. If both branches are children of the same ancestor, the result is siblings.
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